Zavitz, here's what you do to get started.
You have two units, a settler who can build a city and warrior or scout.
Send the warrior or scout out to find little villages and discover the map. When you find a little circle of huts you get gold, a map or a new unit.
Use your settler to build a city asap. That's yoru capital city, then make a unti to guard then start making workers to improve it.
Just pick what ever technology sounds cool at this point, like if you have a lot of cows near, pick animal husbandry or a lot of rice paddies, pick farming. Building cottages makes gold for you, so pick pottery. That kind of thing.
Don't try to win yet, just enjoy building your civilization. As you become familiar then you can start trading with other nations, destroy them or make goals for a type of victory, you can be voted king of the world, you can build the biggest population and cover the most area to win, you can slaughter all your enemies, you win a cultural victory by having a ton of culture in three cities, etc, etc.
Make cities, kill barbarians, build stuff. Cake.
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