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Lanacan  3 stars
Title: Random, Crazy, Mental....
Posts: 789
Registered: 2002-2-19 17:27:59
-Kiande- posted:

Varece posted:

Don't get involved.

combat_mage_sc  4 stars
Title: Hi. My name is Combat and i'm an alcoholic.
Posts: 1,061
Registered: 2001-7-20 21:19:21
Dave needs to grow a pair of balls, divorce the cheating, crazy bitch, get sole custody of the kids and find a new woman that will appreciate him.


 

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n00berness  2 stars
Title: It's not PMS, it's my personality!
Posts: 292
Registered: 2002-10-23 16:29:27
My two cents...

Encourage Dave to continue to see his therapist. YOU cannot save him from his poor decision making, but maybe a professional can help him see better options for his kids as well as himself.

Allow the hospital and other professionals to take care of Sue, her issues and her demands. Her life choices are none of your business. You do, however, retain the right to NOT have your family involved with her.

Hope that Dave does not let someone in this mental state back to the house with kids, but that is out of your control.

Not sure why you want to beat up A-hole. Sue is the one who was your friend and turned out not to be the person you thought she was. I think you can be mad/disappointed with her...but please don't say A-hole "knew she was married with 4 kids" because that is irrelevant. SUE knew she was married with 4 kids...she is the one who took the action (repeatedly) that is problematic.

You are a good friend. Be there if he needs something reasonable (help with the kids from soccer practice, etc.) but any attempts to draw you or Donna into the drama should be met with, "I think that is an excellent question for a professional."

 

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Brandun  4 stars
Posts: 1,834
Registered: 2002-1-23 10:11:50
Thanks n00b

good advice

yeah, she asked one of the other moms (I call them the soccer moms) if she could come stay at her house


she said she didn't think it was a good idea


good call I say

and no, I am not going to go kick aholes ass.. even though I would like too


Yeah, ive got my own family to worry about

 

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TickyAtack  4 stars
Posts: 1,303
Registered: 2001-10-23 15:46:32
Still don't see how asshole deserves it more than the woman who cheated....


He's just sleeping with somebody. She's betraying and ruining her entire family.

 

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Kah_v2  2 stars
Posts: 295
Registered: 2012-2-7 07:29:52
What would jesus do?

 

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Tipztoe  4 stars
Posts: 1,775
Registered: 2004-3-1 17:53:43
Kah_v2 posted:

What would jesus do?



go in a cave and come out 3 days later?
Second_Chance  2 stars
Title: Great One
Posts: 308
Registered: 2001-2-28 15:45:11
My advice: Get the kids out of there. They don't need the drama, don't need to see what was once the Mom and Dad relationship melt down into complete chaos even further than it already has. speak with your peers and see if as a collective you all can begin baby sitting them, and keeping them until their parent's home life can clear up some, no matter what that clarity ends up resembling. They don't need to see how that sausage gets made. Plus it will let mom and dad figure themselves out.

 

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JD_HOGG  4 stars
Posts: 2,846
Registered: 2008-3-18 08:04:21
Stay out of it for sure. Don't give him advice or anything. Just be there for your friend. But not her. Unless you approve of her conduct. If you don't, which I suspect is the case from what I've seen of you here, she does not deserve your friendship.
Dark_EternalFF  4 stars
Title: Official ACF Turd
Posts: 1,838
Registered: 2002-11-8 22:44:06
Dave's wife is a stupid bitch. Dave sounds like a spineless enabler. They're both cockbags for allowing their kids to be in the middle of this situation in the first place.

I would take Dave out and get him drunk and laid...maybe he'll rediscover self-esteem, then. Then hopefully he'll divorce the c***. If bitchtits offs herself, the world is a better place for it and maybe his kids have a chance of growing up normal.

Asshole is a loser nobody, better to just ignore him. Dave's wife is the source of all this madness.

 

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