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Tipztoe  4 stars
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Registered: 2004-3-1 17:53:43
Aerlinthian posted:

Stay out of it. Don't get sucked into it. Be thankful that this is a bullet you can avoid. And yes, that means don't allow your wife to drag you or her into it.

Good luck



this

you have a family to protect from profanityheads like those people.
Brandun  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-1-23 10:11:50
RavofMT posted:

dave sounds like an enabler

he needs to man up. accept the loss, and find a real woman to love



I think this as well, but don't want to tell him

 

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Brandun  4 stars
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Tipztoe posted:

Aerlinthian posted:

Stay out of it. Don't get sucked into it. Be thankful that this is a bullet you can avoid. And yes, that means don't allow your wife to drag you or her into it.

Good luck



this

you have a family to protect from profanityheads like those people.



valid point

 

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_sooz_  4 stars
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Caledric posted:

Keep yourself out of it... Just be there if Dave comes to you. Give no advice, just listen. That's the best thing you can do as a friend.



Yup, drama like this tends to spread and, before you know it, your family is involved too.

I also agree that beating up on Asshole isnt going to do anything. Yeah, he sounds like a piece of work, but he didnt force Sue to have an affair, she chose to do that. And if it wasnt him, it would have been some other guy.

If she's OD'ing to manipulate others that indicates that she may have some kind of personality disorder going on, so she's really in the right place right now.

 

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_Alexandra_  2 stars
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Stay the hell out of it.

 

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-Mithan-  4 stars
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Dave is going to screw up his life and his kids life's because he is "in love with her" still.

The best thing here would have been her dying and them moving on.

 

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Brandun  4 stars
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-Mithan- posted:

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Dave is going to screw up his life and his kids life's because he is "in love with her" still.

The best thing here would have been her dying and them moving on.



I read your original post


it was awesome

great post Mithan

 

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Brandun  4 stars
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meltedmossy posted:

Asshole's not at fault here, it was Sue's idea to sleep with someone else. If not him it would've been some other dude.



this resulted in working together for 10 years....


He knew she was married and had 4 kids


he is indeed one big asshole

he effed up too

 

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-Kiande-  3 stars
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Varece posted:

Don't get involved.

 

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Registered: 2001-8-26 17:08:06
buy this Dave pussy a set of balls and tell him to man up!!!

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