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Author Topic: If you made a mistake would you do anything to get you lover back? [Locked]
Altra_Shadowstalker  4 stars
Posts: 1,266
Registered: 2002-1-17 11:48:15
The problem with tenkly's attack is that it shows he doesn't know how to properly satisfy a woman enough for her to want to please him . He has to resort to boning strangers who don't know him enough to know how quick and useless he is to them. Again, this goes back to being childish: a few quick, desperate thrusts are not going to entice a woman of quality to come back for seconds. This limits his relationship options to someone just as desperate as himself, and really who wouldn't cheat on that? The difference is, I wouldn't lower myself to date someone like that in the first place.

 

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Coriolus  3 stars
Title: Outpost Ice Mexican
Posts: 905
Registered: 2002-5-17 06:20:48
The fundamental reasons why people don't stray is 3 fold:

1./ They are unattractive
2./ they are religious and therefore fear to do so
3./ They suck at life

 

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tenkly  4 stars
Title: Best looking Outposter.
Posts: 1,079
Registered: 2007-3-7 22:50:38
Altra_Shadowstalker posted:

The problem with tenkly's attack is that it shows he doesn't know how to properly satisfy a woman enough for her to want to please him . He has to resort to boning strangers who don't know him enough to know how quick and useless he is to them. Again, this goes back to being childish: a few quick, desperate thrusts are not going to entice a woman of quality to come back for seconds. This limits his relationship options to someone just as desperate as himself, and really who wouldn't cheat on that? The difference is, I wouldn't lower myself to date someone like that in the first place.



If that's the case than howcome every single ex of mine has said they missed me ?

Howcome the same women that you say won't come back a second time, come back not only for seconds, but for thirds and fourth and much more?

Way to think that anyone who wants to sleep with more than one person means they're bad people, or that they don't know how to satisfy one.

ever think that maybe I'm just not satisfied with just the same girl? I've had women who met my every need, and I still strayed. I don't want to. I enjoy being intimate with different women. Thinking that means I have problems is stupid.

 

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eodoll  4 stars
Posts: 1,028
Registered: 2002-2-14 12:35:42
We are not all wired to be cheaters. I dont have to hook up with anyone that is available.

I like being with one person.

What is the mistake? And what do you mean by do anything?
If you love someone, you have to try to get them back. That just means tell that person your feelings.

Im not going to feel like a loser for being spineless or soft with the person i love.

Will i let someone walk all over me? No. My love will go away and the dynamics of the relationship will change.
If you made a mistake - you have to ask yourself, why did i make this mistake? You probably dont want the other person, so let her go.
Moe_Nox  4 stars
Title: In Moe We Trust
Posts: 1,962
Registered: 2007-2-4 12:17:56
IMHO posted:

Altra_Shadowstalker posted:

I've never strayed. I find it extraordinarily easy not to. I see zero truth in your statement and see it as a weak comment on human propensity for fidelity, honor, and integrity.

Further, I find it a cowardly excuse to say "we're not meant to." Who intended humans to be a certain way? If you really wanted something, you damn well know you wouldn't take "you weren't meant to have it" as justification. The simple fact is that you don't want to keep it in your pants and rather than manning up to that fact, you'd rather drag the rest of us down with you. Childish.


Very well said. My beliefs as well.

 

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Altra_Shadowstalker  4 stars
Posts: 1,266
Registered: 2002-1-17 11:48:15

tenkly, bro, a bit defensive, are we? The next step is going to be getting a random girl to make a video for you telling the Outpost how awesome you are. If you can't take it, maybe you shouldn't try dishing it. Poor form.

 

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tenkly  4 stars
Title: Best looking Outposter.
Posts: 1,079
Registered: 2007-3-7 22:50:38
How am I not taking it?

your opinion isn't truth, it's your opinion..

you think someone sleeping with more than a woman is bad, I don't. Doesn't make you more right than me lol

 

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Altra_Shadowstalker  4 stars
Posts: 1,266
Registered: 2002-1-17 11:48:15
You stated that I don't sleep around with women because I'm not surrounded by a ton of hot chicks trying jump me. You do realize I live in New York City, right? There are literally millions of them here, and there is something wrong with them if they don't want to jump me

I simply retorted, in the same vein, that you need to sleep around because you can't keep the ones you do sleep with. I believe I also laced my comment with subtle references to your lack of stamina, girth, and potency.

Then you pull a MuffinKing and are all like "no way, the chicks all love me, they tell me how awesome I am all the time, random Outposter on the interwebs you have to believe me! I have sex with girls more than once, sometimes I sleep with them up to four times!"

Just saying you shouldn't get all defensive when I give you pretty much the exact same shit that you gave me. Your Outpost rep might be called into question... And then where will you be?

 

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tenkly  4 stars
Title: Best looking Outposter.
Posts: 1,079
Registered: 2007-3-7 22:50:38
I was just stating some facts from my side breh. I really can't keep in my pants for just one girl. I've tried and failed more times than I can count. I really don't believe I'll ever be able to just sleep with one person only for a long/extended period of time.

 

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Tipztoe  4 stars
Posts: 1,775
Registered: 2004-3-1 17:53:43
me personally? no.

too many fish in the sea.


I don't see that there's any "one" person that is right for me when there's a planet full of women.

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