I don't see there being a problem with threads with porn in it, it should just be tagged NSFW so people know and can avoid it.
Also, preferable if people aren't using racial slurs in titles and shit.
Still, banning someone for posting a picture of a vag is ridiculous and I would absolutely never ban for cursing or anything ridiculous like that.
I think we just need to make sticky threads for the things people want to post to keep them out of normal threads, like a porn thread and a spam thread.
I think once a board is chosen, people should vote on some of the moderation (such as do we edit posts with porn that are posted outside the porn thread etc.), and all threads that are NSFW and not tagged so will be edited by mods and/or removed.
The only reason I'd be skeptical about going to UD's forums is most of you guys have a terrible track record for raging out and/or being elitist, would be hard to trust you wouldn't be extremely biased and heavy handed with moderation. By that same token, I think there may be one or two people from UD who could be moderators on a neutral board, provided they don't give Rayne access to their accounts because you know he would rageban half the forums. Jus' sayin'.
Hagrin is a pretty decent option, I've never heard of any problem with him, would probably need to have him volunteer his forums directly though.
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