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Kordirn  4 stars
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At least Jezza was an adult, and was able to voice what was bothering her.

 

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Sith_Mauler  4 stars
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Jezza_Belle posted:

Kordirn posted:

What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.



I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.

 

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Jezza_Belle  4 stars
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Sith_Mauler posted:

Jezza_Belle posted:

Kordirn posted:

What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.



I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.



We aren't in a relationship, or at least not one that would involve doing anything annoying to get out of. It is not a boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic.

 

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Sith_Mauler  4 stars
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Jezza_Belle posted:

Sith_Mauler posted:

Jezza_Belle posted:

Kordirn posted:

What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.



I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.



We aren't in a relationship, or at least not one that would involve doing anything annoying to get out of. It is not a boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic.


then why do you care?

 

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Jezza_Belle  4 stars
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Sith_Mauler posted:

Jezza_Belle posted:

Sith_Mauler posted:

Jezza_Belle posted:

Kordirn posted:

What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.



I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.



We aren't in a relationship, or at least not one that would involve doing anything annoying to get out of. It is not a boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic.


then why do you care?




your world must be all kinds of boring, being just black and white.

 

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Cuttlery  4 stars
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So wait this isn't a BF? Now I am really lost.

 

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Sith_Mauler  4 stars
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no I just have friends that dont try and create drama.

I left that stage in high school but I guess some women are addicted to drama.

 

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Jezza_Belle  4 stars
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Cuttlery posted:

So wait this isn't a BF? Now I am really lost.



he is someone I go out with, do things for, and have feelings for, but we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. This is the person I generally refer to as "manfriend". It is not an exclusive relationship, which is why I doubt that he's doing it for Sith's reasons.. there just is no point. I don't think he would have bothered texting me 45 times after I dropped him off trying to figure out why I was mad. Just moments before the obnoxiousness happened he had invited me to dinner/movie.


doesn't make any sense to invite me over and then sabotage it intentionally.

 

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Ah-Schoo  4 stars
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Jezza_Belle posted:

Hiakisha posted:

you got mad at him because he sang over a song? Really? I think you're completely overreacting in this situation



and the rest of the guys that do not get it have chimed in.

I bet some of them get it.

 

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CulenTrey  1 star
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Registered: 2003-9-15 10:12:46
Fozzie_Bear posted:

no... what you and so MANY women dont get is that you arent in charge of anybody but yourself. make your request of somebody but demand nothing.

if the person doesnt meet your request then you do something for yourself like leave them alone or dont play the music around them. not run to a message board to talk about how we dont get it.



This.

Your argument isn't 'he doesn't understand', it's 'he won't do what I tell him to do'.

This is a control issue, not a singing problem. You need to realize you can't dictate the actions of your friends. Accept them for who they are or cut ties and move on.

 

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