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Sith_Mauler  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-12-21 13:40:03
CulenTrey posted:

Fozzie_Bear posted:

no... what you and so MANY women dont get is that you arent in charge of anybody but yourself. make your request of somebody but demand nothing.

if the person doesnt meet your request then you do something for yourself like leave them alone or dont play the music around them. not run to a message board to talk about how we dont get it.



This.

Your argument isn't 'he doesn't understand', it's 'he won't do what I tell him to do'.

This is a control issue, not a singing problem. You need to realize you can't dictate the actions of your friends. Accept them for who they are or cut ties and move on.



 

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shaggynuts24  2 stars
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girls are retarded

 

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Jezza_Belle posted:

That when I get mad at them it isn't necessarily the thing that they're doing that pisses me off, but their that their intent was to annoy me with it in the first place, and even after repeatedly telling them that it's annoying, they only ramp up their efforts to annoy. The antagonism is what pisses me off.


Because the other ten women gave in eventually.

Women are dumb don't you know?

 

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-Abysmal-  4 stars
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Jezza_Belle posted:

...they only ramp up their efforts to annoy. The antagonism is what pisses me off.



the only important part of your post...

it's a shame that you can write it, but you dont understand what you wrote!

 

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Reapist  4 stars
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I told you about 30 replies ago...it's a control issue.

 

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myxomatosis8  3 stars
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Sith_Mauler posted:

Jezza_Belle posted:

Kordirn posted:

What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.



I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.



That's hardly surprising coming from you.

Also, I can't believe that someone doing something to piss someone off over and over, whether the one being pissed off is a guy or a girl wouldn't bother them. Seriously? Asking someone nicely not to do something, then they continually keep doing it JUST to piss you off is totally cool, and the person being irritated is just overreacting, every time? Gawd.

 

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BritonGuy  4 stars
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Jezza_Belle posted:

Cuttlery posted:

So wait this isn't a BF? Now I am really lost.



he is someone I go out with, do things for, and have feelings for, but we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. This is the person I generally refer to as "manfriend". It is not an exclusive relationship, which is why I doubt that he's doing it for Sith's reasons.. there just is no point. I don't think he would have bothered texting me 45 times after I dropped him off trying to figure out why I was mad. Just moments before the obnoxiousness happened he had invited me to dinner/movie.


doesn't make any sense to invite me over and then sabotage it intentionally.



45 texts. Still keeping it real huh Jezza.

 

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_Alexandra_  2 stars
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Registered: 2000-6-12 10:58:38
Jezza_Belle posted:

That when I get mad at them it isn't necessarily the thing that they're doing that pisses me off, but their that their intent was to annoy me with it in the first place, and even after repeatedly telling them that it's annoying, they only ramp up their efforts to annoy. The antagonism is what pisses me off.



You just explained my last 13 years of marriage. I've learned to live with it.

 

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Immortal_Haze  2 stars
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In my experience, women tend to go overboard about something they find annoying. It's more fun to annoy them more to the point they get REALLY pissed off and then laugh at them for being that pissed off.

 

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TickyAtack  4 stars
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Registered: 2001-10-23 15:46:32
Immortal_Haze posted:

In my experience, women tend to go overboard about something they find annoying. It's more fun to annoy them more to the point they get REALLY pissed off and then laugh at them for being that pissed off.



Accomplishes two things. Tests our limits and at the same time exposes us to how retarded we can be, which hopefully desensitizes us to it, so we won't be so controlling/dramatic about other things.

I've been through it, I don't give a ###t much anymore and thus don't have these problems often. I find destroying a good time or worse based on my own irrational annoyances a profanity thing to do.

 

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