ou were lied to. Does this totally ruin your life?What matters if your friend is a he or a she? Does that influence your life in a small bit?"
Lieing can ruin life. If your wife (or husband) lied when they said they loved you, would that ruin your life?
Sure lieing about your gender isn't as directly tied to rl or as big as the idea I suggested above but it's on the same general premise.
How about another scenerio, your favorite (or only) vassal was lieing to you when they said you were a good patron and leaves you. Sure you can move on, but haven't you been hurt? Maybe you can just suck up the lies over the years of how great a patron you were and such, but I would be very sad.
If Kaede lies about something like her gender what keeps it from lieing about other things? Maybe it has even been lieing about it's friendship with you in game. And as for the question you asked, no it dosen't matter at all wheither it is a he or she, what matters is that it has been lying to you and the rest of it's friends for 2 years. I just wonder what other things it has been lying about...
Edit: And this "they'll get over it" crap that Kaede is saying just makes it worse. It's like stealing 20 smalls from someone and being like, Oh, they'll get over it. It doesn't even care (or stop to think) that it may have harmed people or destroyed trust it had with people by lying for so long...


