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Halloweve  Posts: 422
Registered: 2004-3-6 10:19:02
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Ok, I am assuming all of you are men..so let me flip the question.
Let's say you both want sex the first date..fine and good..but would you consider this woman to be the one you want to mature a relationship with..for possible marriage someday? Or, do you just think she is probably just a whore and would be better off to keep looking? Be honest.
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Cawlin  Posts: 1,759
Registered: 2005-2-22 07:58:42
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Halloweve posted:
Ok, I am assuming all of you are men..so let me flip the question.
Let's say you both want sex the first date..fine and good..but would you consider this woman to be the one you want to mature a relationship with..for possible marriage someday? Or, do you just think she is probably just a whore and would be better off to keep looking? Be honest.
Whether or not we made the two-backed beast on the first date would not play into my decision to continue to date her.
I believe the sort of stigma you're talking about exists more amongst women judging themselves or other women than amongst men judging women.
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Date Posted:
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Is having sex on the first date a good idea? |
Halloweve posted:
Ok, I am assuming all of you are men..so let me flip the question.
Let's say you both want sex the first date..fine and good..but would you consider this woman to be the one you want to mature a relationship with..for possible marriage someday? Or, do you just think she is probably just a whore and would be better off to keep looking? Be honest.
its the first date!
whos thinking about future relationships and marriage??!
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IMHO Title: Official Outpost Greeter
Posts: 2,287
Registered: 2001-11-1 03:55:02
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Halloweve posted:
Ok, I am assuming all of you are men..so let me flip the question.
Let's say you both want sex the first date..fine and good..but would you consider this woman to be the one you want to mature a relationship with..for possible marriage someday? Or, do you just think she is probably just a whore and would be better off to keep looking? Be honest.
Men who want expect sex on the first date are probably not good marriage materiel.
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RHWarrior  Posts: 770
Registered: 2009-9-30 18:42:12
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Halloweve posted:
Ok, I am assuming all of you are men..so let me flip the question.
Let's say you both want sex the first date..fine and good..but would you consider this woman to be the one you want to mature a relationship with..for possible marriage someday? Or, do you just think she is probably just a whore and would be better off to keep looking? Be honest.
I wouldn't want a wife that is less than a slutty ho!
With me.
Of course I'm not a catholic.
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reesescups Title: //Captain America
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Registered: 2003-5-26 14:45:53
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Halloweve posted:
Ok, I am assuming all of you are men..so let me flip the question.
Let's say you both want sex the first date..fine and good..but would you consider this woman to be the one you want to mature a relationship with..for possible marriage someday? Or, do you just think she is probably just a whore and would be better off to keep looking? Be honest.
All depends on how it plays out.
Sex early on in the dating or relationship is not a deal breaker for a long term relationship. Again, it just depends on how slutty BOTH people are about it...
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Date Posted:
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IMHO posted:
Halloweve posted:
Ok, I am assuming all of you are men..so let me flip the question.
Let's say you both want sex the first date..fine and good..but would you consider this woman to be the one you want to mature a relationship with..for possible marriage someday? Or, do you just think she is probably just a whore and would be better off to keep looking? Be honest.
Men who want expect sex on the first date are probably not good marriage materiel.
women who are thinking about marriage on the first date are also probably not good marriage material
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Ptilk Title: Creepy old pirate
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Registered: 2002-2-13 14:52:58
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I'd never consider having a relationship with a woman who didn't have some sort of sex with me on the first date. What would be the point?
In a relationship I am looking for:
Companionship (with someone I can have sex with)
Friendship (with someone I can have sex with)
Fun (in the form of sex at times)
Conversation (sometimes about sex and sometimes during sex)
Sex
If it isn't about sex, it's not about a relationship. It's called being friends. I don't need any more of those, the ones I have are enough trouble.
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Date Posted:
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Ptilk posted:
I'd never consider having a relationship with a woman who didn't have some sort of sex with me on the first date. What would be the point?
In a relationship I am looking for:
Companionship (with someone I can have sex with)
Friendship (with someone I can have sex with)
Fun (in the form of sex at times)
Conversation (sometimes about sex and sometimes during sex)
Sex
If it isn't about sex, it's not about a relationship. It's called being friends. I don't need anymore.
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Yukishiro1 Posts: 3,243
Registered: 2002-9-20 23:52:57
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It kinda depends on what the purpose of the date is, doesn't it?
And how well you know the person, for that matter.
If you're having sex with someone you just met an hour or two ago at the bar who you really know nothing at all about, you are taking the risk of possibly pretty lifechanging consequences for what amounts to an hour or two of fun. I'm not sure the sort of person who does that is really the sort of person I would want to have a long-term relationship with. But then if I was the sort of person who would do that I probably wouldn't think that way in the first place.
And I guess you can say that about almost anything. If you play football with some friends you're taking the risk of maybe breaking your neck for an hour or two of fun. Or any time you get in a car. So maybe the risk of having sex on the first date and being stuck with a lifetime of child support payments to make or getting AIDS is overrated.
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