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Modeeb  4 stars
Title: A Ghost In The Machine
Posts: 1,258
Registered: 2002-4-19 10:48:36
If I date a woman three times without sex , I 'm never to be seen again. It depends on the first encounter. I like to build some intimacy, that usually takes me one date. However, if she is ready on the first date, then I will acquiesce.

 

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_Enkidu_  2 stars
Title: Zen Badger
Posts: 280
Registered: 2001-12-24 05:02:15
I'm going with 'good idea.'


I would have picked 'great idea' but that wasn't an option.

 

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Coriolus  3 stars
Title: Outpost Ice Mexican
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Registered: 2002-5-17 06:20:48
Excellent idea

 

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Scarne  4 stars
Title: Capo di Scientifico
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Registered: 2001-7-23 15:24:34
PhillsburyBandit posted:

I think its good for the guy but bad for the chick.


Maybe it is good for the less attractive person but bad for the more attractive person.

 

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IMHO  4 stars
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Registered: 2001-11-1 03:55:02
GrilledCheez posted:

What if she says no so you have sex by yourself? What if you have sex by yourself right in front of her?

Someone should try that sometime.



Watch "Homeland"

 

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Crooq_Lionfang  1 star
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Registered: 2003-3-11 11:53:17
Coriolus posted:

Excellent idea

 

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IMHO  4 stars
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AT $200/hr it better be more than an idea!!

 

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Scarne  4 stars
Title: Capo di Scientifico
Posts: 1,087
Registered: 2001-7-23 15:24:34
GrilledCheez posted:

Manegarm posted:

Yes and no, good if she says yes.. very bad if she says no.





I don't think that has much to do with what date you are on. What if she says no so you have sex by yourself? What if you have sex by yourself right in front of her?

Someone should try that sometime.


I guess the "Naked Man" episode of How I Met Your Mother somewhat covers this.

 

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Taliesihne  4 stars
Title: Wind on the Deep Waters
Posts: 1,117
Registered: 2004-2-19 04:47:59
That scene from Homeland is horribly awkward.

But I agree that it really depends on the date and the circumstances.

At my age, it's certainly in the cards with every date (if I were single and dating that is.)

That's one of the great things about being middle aged - no more of that BS around sex. Women in their 30's love it and have no problem giving it up - it isn't this protracted chase you sometimes ran into in your twenties.

 

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Yukishiro1  4 stars
Posts: 3,243
Registered: 2002-9-20 23:52:57
Honestly, probably not unless you're sterile.


Or you bat for the other team like Sobaki so that isn't a potential issue.

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