Sex, love, affection, all different facets of the same concept.

 

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So are murder, manslaughter, and justifiable homicide facets of the same concept (a different one than love of course but still)...


My point is that peoples' emotions and feelings matter and that's just the plain truth of it. Acting as if you cannot be held responsible for your actions when another's emotions are involved is bad juju imo. I'm not against NSA fooling around with willing participants, not even remotely in the least do I have a problem with that. However, I think that people need to be cognizant of others' feelings and implied commitments and/or implied depth of feelings. This is really about the golden rule when you get right down to it.

 

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Just so long as you realize that as soon as she meets someone with a nicer car she is going to leave you. First she is going to start cheating on you for a while to see if the new guy is really worth leaving you for though, so as soon as her behaviors change and she starts shuffling her schedule on you out of the blue, it is safe to say that the cheating has started.

If you're okay with all of this, then I say to go for it, just don't get yourself too emotionally involved.

 

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