that is the question

been "hanging out" with this chick for a while now.

shes finally dumping her bf


whats the difference between "dating" and just "hanging out".

will i be required to do stuff for her, now?
like take her out on dates?
or get jealous over the other guys she "hangs out" with?
will i be required to talk about her day and things?


what are the down sides of saying "no. lets just keep "hanging out"?

 

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Do you care for this woman? Obviously there is some attraction there or you wouldn't have asked but this is a really big part of the answer.

 

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You work on cars don't you sweeny? Was that just 9 to 5 or is it a hobby for you as well?
Well whatever your hobby is get her over and around you while you are doing it. Have her help ya out with some of it.
If it doesn't feel absolutely comfortable then just hold at friends.
If it feels right and she is smiling and enjoying the time with you doing your thing, put it in her butt and ride off into the sunset.

 

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If by 'hanging out', you mean that she's been banging you on the side, then absolutely not.

If she cheated on her boyfriend with you, she'll be cheating on you with someone else.

Is this advice for you or her because my answer is different depending on which it is.

 

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You know it's funny but this applies more to the boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic than the husband/wife dynamic.

Well maybe it's not funny at all whatever

 

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Sex on the hood of a car is hot.


If the car is clean.

 

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this
though im not sure i care.
that is the reason for the question.

is it possible to "date" her without getting too involved?
theres definitely attraction there but im pretty sure its all below the waist.

what are the potential outcomes if i "date" her and ride it out till she either tires of my lack of interest or we both wind up in jail with thousands of dollars in fines from who knows what?

how involved would i have to be as "the boyfriend"?


and shes way into my hobbies with me.
both drinking and brewing beer.

and i havent worked on cars in almost 10 years now.
sex on the bow of a boat under the hot summer sun is way hotter than sex on the hood of a car

 

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male semen is molecularly indistinguishable from Turtle Wax

 

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Or if it's been running recently.

Different kind of hot, though.

 

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