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NonOffensiveName  3 stars
Title: Touching people in special places all day long
Posts: 830
Registered: 2001-10-7 19:39:14
aurther-the-leader posted:

lol this world makes me sick. kids will be kids they will bully its in human nature, adults bully all the time why is it any different? deal with it. people in the public eye get slammed on all the time do they get to sue the govt for not stopping people sending hatemail? get the kids on slander if they have a case for that. i dont tolerate for lies or illegal behavior. proper action is slap kids who broke the law (egging,slander if applicable, if things said were all true and just hurtful then deal with it imo) under 18 with some misdemenor that they can get expunged soon. stick them in a juvinile center for a while to punish them for breaking the law (not bullying). kid who got bullied should have same rights as anyone else but punish what should be punished. imo its stupid that we tell kids hey dont bully, yet check out any big time celebs that abandon their fan base (lebron) guess he should sue Stern for 135k because he got bullied by using a perfectly legal free agency move. that kind of bullying is acceptable its even encouraged as some places gave discounts for bringing in and trashing/burning former lebron gear. yet we are going to try to hold kids (whom we say cant determine anything on their own unless they are 18. well except abortions) to a higher standard when all they see on TV is accepted bullying. teach them that bullying is fine as long as one does it in a legal to defend in court kind of way. teach them that breaking the law to bully is wrong.

There is quite a bit of difference between a celebrity like an athlete who is a public figure doing what he does. He is putting himself out there to be in the public eye. Which is alot different than some closeted kid who gets picked on every day by the same guy until he snaps and either kills the bully or more likely himself. I know kids will be kids but at some point an adult needs to step in if it gets too severe.

 

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silvadel2  2 stars
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Registered: 2009-7-13 09:37:29
I got bullied a lot in school also.

It was so bad with one kid that I figured the consistant path of one of the teachers, and lured the bully to a point where he would end up seen and then just stood there while he beat me to a pulp -- I didnt fight back and I didnt run I just let him pummel me. The teacher rounded the corner and witnessed me bloody and doing nothing with him beating the snot out of me and he got expelled.

Actually after that I didnt get bullied as much. I guess if you get a reputation of "Person will let you beat him up as opposed to running and the people doing it have a bad tendency to get caught" you arent the best target.

 

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Reapist  4 stars
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You're even a worser target when you bloody their nose and it doesn't hurt you as much.

 

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Silverwuf  4 stars
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Registered: 2001-7-5 14:44:35
I got bullied from one particular girl at school until I befriended a girl whose brother had spent time in jail and didn't want anyone messing with his family or their friends. He pointedly told the girl bullying me that he would kill her if she didn't stop. She stopped.

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