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-Darkfire-  Posts: 536
Registered: 2002-4-21 13:17:30
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i think a lot of people are missing the fact that i don't want to be involved because of the kid, i don't like kids and i don't want kids. i also don't want to be the dude that hooks up with mommy and gives the kid severe issues for the rest of its life for banging mommy every weekend. as well as her being in the circle of friends and us carpooling to class together a few times a week - if it goes wrong everything is gonna suck. i pretty much have to find a way to make her stop liking me.
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Tipztoe  Posts: 1,775
Registered: 2004-3-1 17:53:43
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-Darkfire- posted:
i think a lot of people are missing the fact that i don't want to be involved because of the kid, i don't like kids and i don't want kids. i also don't want to be the dude that hooks up with mommy and gives the kid severe issues for the rest of its life for banging mommy every weekend. as well as her being in the circle of friends and us carpooling to class together a few times a week - if it goes wrong everything is gonna suck. i pretty much have to find a way to make her stop liking me.
then you answered your own question.
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-Darkfire- Posts: 536
Registered: 2002-4-21 13:17:30
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hooking up with a single mom? |
well, yes and no. i mean i like her - but i don't know how much i like her, and the kid is a big factor in it. i'm not sure what i should do in the situation which is why i was looking for different input.
its sort of like jerry maguire: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vW95YIpC6Rw
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Lanacan Title: Random, Crazy, Mental....
Posts: 789
Registered: 2002-2-19 17:27:59
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Date Posted:
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Dark_EternalFF posted:
Lanacan posted:
At this point in my life if I was single again I would date a single Mom, but I know it would not be to get remarried again.
He didn't say 'date', he said 'hook up'. There's a BIG difference.
I guess... Lol
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Date Posted:
1/1/00 12:01am
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Here's the deal - if you just want to hook up with a single mom, make sure the single mom is in her 30s. At that point, they get it...they can take care of themselves, they are more likely to be ok just hooking up, and they play less games. Women under the age of 30 are scared because they're single, young, and have a kid. The sky is falling and they'll never be able to travel to Europe or live in a nice big house unless they latch on to a guy, blah blah. Quite honestly, they GENERALLY don't have their sh** together yet.
Now the ladies in their 30s will occasionally toss the relationship card in if you've been tossing the lumber pretty well or if you're pretty awesome, but they understand the situation. The ladies in their 20s will burn your car, call you 200 times when you don't answer one text, and generally stalk you after the 3rd time you've knocked it out.
*Disclaimer - the above is in general. I'm sure you're a special flower and are the exception.
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Caledric Title: Pew! Pew! Pew!
Posts: 1,327
Registered: 2001-12-22 07:59:39
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Gaevren posted:
The single moms who pull this kind of crap are the same kind of girls who would insist on being able to "go out for a girls night out" but would bitch at their boyfriends for having a "guys night out".
Heh you just described my soon to be ex again. She went out every weekend to party with her friends when I was on the daytime shift. The one time I would suggested she stay in while I go out for drinks with friends, or have her mom watch the kid while WE went out... the profanity hit the fan.
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Gaevren Title: Wat do?
Posts: 1,181
Registered: 2004-9-15 09:29:36
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Date Posted:
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Caledric posted:
Gaevren posted:
The single moms who pull this kind of crap are the same kind of girls who would insist on being able to "go out for a girls night out" but would bitch at their boyfriends for having a "guys night out".
Heh you just described my soon to be ex again. She went out every weekend to party with her friends when I was on the daytime shift. The one time I would suggested she stay in while I go out for drinks with friends, or have her mom watch the kid while WE went out... the profanity hit the fan.
That is the suck 
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.Sylva.  Title: The Beer Fairy
Posts: 236
Registered: 2001-4-8 18:38:12
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Date Posted:
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Gaevy and IH speak wise, wise words.
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winga Title: Canadian
Posts: 2,256
Registered: 2001-4-27 15:46:32
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Date Posted:
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Immortal_Haze posted:
Here's the deal - if you just want to hook up with a single mom, make sure the single mom is in her 30s. At that point, they get it...they can take care of themselves, they are more likely to be ok just hooking up, and they play less games. Women under the age of 30 are scared because they're single, young, and have a kid. The sky is falling and they'll never be able to travel to Europe or live in a nice big house unless they latch on to a guy, blah blah. Quite honestly, they GENERALLY don't have their sh** together yet.
Now the ladies in their 30s will occasionally toss the relationship card in if you've been tossing the lumber pretty well or if you're pretty awesome, but they understand the situation. The ladies in their 20s will burn your car, call you 200 times when you don't answer one text, and generally stalk you after the 3rd time you've knocked it out.
*Disclaimer - the above is in general. I'm sure you're a special flower and are the exception.
My ex was in her 20's and ... she doesn't fit your description in terms of afraid of doing things... *shrug* Now closer to 30, to my knowledge, is less like the 30+ type.
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Mangler_SC Title: Bellybutton Lint Collector
Posts: 1,856
Registered: 2003-12-2 08:37:05
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Date Posted:
1/1/00 12:01am
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Mom's are preferred over women without kids.
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