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Just walked in on my supposed girlfriend with another man.
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vn_sirmike
Posts: 19
Registered: 2002-7-21 13:22:42
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6/16/11 7:12am
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Just walked in on my supposed girlfriend with another man.
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Did you at least beat her up now?
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Registered: 2003-5-7 12:23:41
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6/16/11 7:12am
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Sometimes life sucks, it will get better.
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RaakWar
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Registered: 2008-8-30 15:36:56
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6/16/11 7:12am
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Just walked in on my supposed girlfriend with another man.
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Jennifer_the_Great posted:
Um. I understand that you're upset and all that... but seriously?
Number one - you placed your children in a situation where they were around someone who was clearly unstable. Maybe it's just my expectations out of life, but I don't and will never see how a drunk adult and children belong in the same place.
Two - You actually thought it was a good idea to stay with someone after they accused you of sexually abusing their daughter? What in the eff were you thinking? All it would have taken would have been one phone call, or one remark to someone who actually gave a <excrement>. The rest of your life could and most likely would have been ruined, your children possibly taken away, etc. Sex offender labels are hard to beat.
Three - Someone was physically violent with you more than once and you thought that was kosher? (Again, what in the eff were you thinking....) You placed yourself and your children in a situation that wasn't healthy, where there was a risk to each and every one of you. Grow a pair and GTFO - find somewhere to live, someone who's trustworthy to share the lives of yourself and your children with. Kick the bitch to the curb, tell her that you *might* consider meeting her for coffee if she can manage a stint through rehab and manage to become a somewhat functioning member of society. Having someone become physically violent in front of your own kids and you can't figure out what the problems are with that scares me.
I could care less that the dumb bitch cheated on you - I'm far more concerned that you let everything else slide.
And I thought I was a callous asshole sometimes, but I step aside now
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Date Posted:
6/16/11 7:13am
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Just walked in on my supposed girlfriend with another man.
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RaakWar posted:
Jennifer_the_Great posted:
Um. I understand that you're upset and all that... but seriously?
Number one - you placed your children in a situation where they were around someone who was clearly unstable. Maybe it's just my expectations out of life, but I don't and will never see how a drunk adult and children belong in the same place.
Two - You actually thought it was a good idea to stay with someone after they accused you of sexually abusing their daughter? What in the eff were you thinking? All it would have taken would have been one phone call, or one remark to someone who actually gave a <excrement>. The rest of your life could and most likely would have been ruined, your children possibly taken away, etc. Sex offender labels are hard to beat.
Three - Someone was physically violent with you more than once and you thought that was kosher? (Again, what in the eff were you thinking....) You placed yourself and your children in a situation that wasn't healthy, where there was a risk to each and every one of you. Grow a pair and GTFO - find somewhere to live, someone who's trustworthy to share the lives of yourself and your children with. Kick the bitch to the curb, tell her that you *might* consider meeting her for coffee if she can manage a stint through rehab and manage to become a somewhat functioning member of society. Having someone become physically violent in front of your own kids and you can't figure out what the problems are with that scares me.
I could care less that the dumb bitch cheated on you - I'm far more concerned that you let everything else slide.
And I thought I was a callous asshole sometimes, but I step aside now
I really have to agree here, never thought I would be against Jen.
Usually this comes from people who haven't seen abuse
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Date Posted:
6/16/11 7:13am
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Just walked in on my supposed girlfriend with another man.
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It can be hard to pick up on the signs while they are happening.
We usually reflect on the past and then comes the realization of how stupid we were and how we could not see it coming.
To the OP, at least you know now, hope the next phase of your life will give you more happiness than this one did.
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