Talk about a ****** morning so far.. WOW I'm crushed. 3 years of my heart to this bitch and she does this to me.
Oh and someone yesterday crashed into my truck. Then my alternator took a crap on my Explorer. What a freakin week.

 

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Wow.. Sorry man. Thats would be one of the worst things I could think of to happen to a guy. I guess the bright side is at least you found out.

 

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Yea I guess that I only wasted 3 1/2 years on her. Feels like someone is steppig on my heart. I've had a terrible last 3 years and she knows it. Dad died suddenly then Brother killed himself in my house 10 feet away from me 3 months later. The bitch knew how my heart hurt lately too. Why not leave someone first? I guess I'll never know what its like cause I've never cheated on any of my girlfriends/ex wife ever. Sorry to rant on here just looking for maybe someone that had that happen to them and how they delt with it.

 

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My ex g/f cheated on me. With 3 people. But I guess I am way to trusting and didn't pick up on the signs but I didn't find out about it till 3 months after I kicked the B to the curb. I had my own house and 1 roomate plus she was living with me. My mom moved in for a few months while her new house was getting built and my ex treated my mom like crap but I wasn't about to let that fly so I said see ya later gtfo of my house. 3 months later 2 of her best friends found me at a party(I was DD for someone) Her friends needed a ride home so I gave them a ride and came back in a little bit for my buddy I was DD for. They then proceeded to tell me about all 3 guys my ex cheated on me with. Even 3 months after the relationship ended and I had moved on I was still like WTF!!!! Ya know what I did? Spread a few rumors and left it alone. Rumors around here though spread like you wouldn't believe if you know the right people.

I think the best part which I haven't mentioned yet was when I kicked her out. She tried pulling the whole "I'm pregnant" ploy on me. And I was like ummm, no. Went to the store bought a prego test and gave it to her. She tried the puppy face, crying you name it. But guess what. She wasn't prego. I was right. She was just another dumb mistake.

But if I had walked in on it happening like you did. I probly would have lost my **** on them.

 

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And we here for you.

 

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My ex wife of 3.5yrs cheated on me with several people, and is now married to my childhood best friend so I feel your pain man. At least you do not have kids with her!

 

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Thanks guys.. Yea I put up with her beating up on me 4 times.. Called the cops on her 2nd time and just wanted her outta MY HOUSE and she had a warrant so went to jail. She has nobody else to go to so I took her back in only because we were best friends first. Then ended up back into a relationship with her. 1 year later she hit me a bunch in front of my 2 boys who were so scared. Again kicked her out and ended up feeling sorry for her and she gave me her word she was done drinking.

I guess it took 4 beatings oh one of them i took my boys and her oldest daughter 14 to the shore and she got so drunked and because we left her to go have fun when I got back she accused her daughter of trying to have sex with me. Then proceed to split my lip.. Never touched her. Not even pushed her back.. Usually left my own house till she passed out and sat in the end of my driveway. Like a mile long driveway.

I really hope I don't judge future women on her actions. Gonna be so hard to trust someone and bring them into my life.
Thanks for the words all. Helps more than u know.

 

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She beat you (this was hard to type btw) 4 times, and you're heartbroken and surprised that she cheated on you? Really?

 

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Um. I understand that you're upset and all that... but seriously?

Number one - you placed your children in a situation where they were around someone who was clearly unstable. Maybe it's just my expectations out of life, but I don't and will never see how a drunk adult and children belong in the same place.

Two - You actually thought it was a good idea to stay with someone after they accused you of sexually abusing their daughter? What in the eff were you thinking? All it would have taken would have been one phone call, or one remark to someone who actually gave a <excrement>. The rest of your life could and most likely would have been ruined, your children possibly taken away, etc. Sex offender labels are hard to beat.

Three - Someone was physically violent with you more than once and you thought that was kosher? (Again, what in the eff were you thinking....) You placed yourself and your children in a situation that wasn't healthy, where there was a risk to each and every one of you. Grow a pair and GTFO - find somewhere to live, someone who's trustworthy to share the lives of yourself and your children with. Kick the bitch to the curb, tell her that you *might* consider meeting her for coffee if she can manage a stint through rehab and manage to become a somewhat functioning member of society. Having someone become physically violent in front of your own kids and you can't figure out what the problems are with that scares me.

I could care less that the dumb bitch cheated on you - I'm far more concerned that you let everything else slide.

 

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I don't think you should worry about future women.

I do think you should think careful about who you jump into a relationship with.