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ZartanAround  Title: Torpid Curmudgeon
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Registered: 2004-2-6 20:54:09
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3) go stick you penis in an electrical outlet
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Elocism Title: Pseudonym
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-Ducky- Posts: 580
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We had sex on the first date and then we got married. 
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Shimatta33  Posts: 142
Registered: 2003-11-19 23:55:28
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There's no hard fast rules...for some people it's a good idea, for some it's a bad idea. Depends on the people involved. I would think no less of the potential future together with a woman if she slept with me on the first date. I wouldn't lose any respect for her if she didn't want to sleep with me on the first date.
Depends on the woman and the man. If you have a nasty cycle of one night stands or brief intense relationships that end in fiery disaster and are looking for long term love then it's most likely a bad idea, but if you are just comfortable and confident in yourself and each other and that's where things lead then what's wrong with that?
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eodoll  Posts: 1,028
Registered: 2002-2-14 12:35:42
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Halloweve posted:
Yeah Sweeny it's the first date  That's why I was thinking..if she has sex with you on the first date..maybe she does all the time? Would that matter down the road..or would she just more than likely be booty call date girl?
And someone said this is how women judge one another..not men..really? I have guy friends that are more than blunt with me..they are more than happy to have sex the first date..but seems like they would never consider this a serious contender for more.
If the girl can atleast hold out for a few dates..she gets a little more respect.
I am older than alot of you so maybe this is just old fashioned talk. Things change.
The old rule still has merit,, men fall in love before sex and women after. So if youre really trying to get that bond from the guy dont expect sex to do it.
Ive had sex on the first date, but we had been talking a bit before that. That date was just great and i didnt think of her as a slut, i thought instead that i was irresistable.
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GrilledCheez Title: The Lord's Balls
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Umm. Why would you respect a woman that "held out" for five dates more than one that did what you both wanted on the first date? Obviously your expectation is that if you are in a committed relationship she doesn't have sex with other guys. No matter how many times they've dated her.
This line of reason makes no sense to me. If this wa sa delayed gratification scenario then ok, but it's not. You can have sex as many times as you like, so there's no reason to save it for later.
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eodoll Posts: 1,028
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Well its all about scenario... If you meet a woman at a bar or club or party and then take her home or into a closet/bathroom..
She is not getting respect, she is not going to be talked about respectfully, she is just someone you f'd and you will most Ikely try to get away from her ASAP. She will probably never go beyond friends with benefits if it does go further.
But if this is a real date where youre buying a dinner and both are going into the date hoping for a relationship, then thats a dfferent story.
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Bobvillas Posts: 643
Registered: 2008-11-19 12:56:18
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Having sex on the first date is typically not all its cracked up to be.
Neither of you know the other well enough to know how to make it really enjoyable.
Take your time and get to know what makes them tick if you are looking for a real relationship.
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ZartanAround Title: Torpid Curmudgeon
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-Ducky- posted:
We had sex on the first date and then we got married.
i can understand sex on the first date, but getting married is going too far. 
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__Bonk__  Posts: 5,122
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Ducky jumped the broom!
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