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Despertly trying to find things in common on dates
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Heladric
Title: Alcohol Enthusiast
Posts: 155
Registered: 2002-6-3 07:29:41
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Despertly trying to find things in common on dates
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Bonk, I'm gonna make this simple. On a date, unless she asks a question about you directly, keep the conversation going on her life. Girls love talking about themselves. You'll know very quickly whether or not this girl is right for you if you just keep letting her talk about her.
I think I'm an awesome guy and that everyone loves being around me. But when this girl
and she agreed to go on a date with me, I stopped caring about me and kept the focus on her. We've been together for close to 2 years now. I knew almost everything about her when we started dating and she knew very little about me. But she's getting all the info as we go along.
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__Bonk__
Posts: 5,122
Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
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Thanks 
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-Ducky-
Posts: 580
Registered: 2001-6-1 14:21:49
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Kordirn posted:
Stop being so judgemental bonk. People are flawed, and I think you are just seeking out flaws... You have plenty of baggage of your own. Why not just go out, have fun, and see how things turn out? Try not to think too much into little things or you will be forever alone.
This is good advice. Try being humble and just go out with the intention of having a fun night out. Stop looking "despertly" for a love connection. You are putting too much pressure on the dates and the people on them. At this point I don't think anyone is going to meet your expectations because now they've been set so high. Just go out and have fun.
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Rikarus
Title: Ultimate Badass
Posts: 267
Registered: 2002-2-24 12:24:32
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Bonk, if you have a problemwith EVERY SINGLE ONE of them, YOU are the problem common to dating!
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Modeeb
Title: A Ghost In The Machine
Posts: 1,258
Registered: 2002-4-19 10:48:36
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It is very important to relax and let things happen naturally. Let go of your agenda and just be with the women you are with- appreciate them for who they are.
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__Bonk__
Posts: 5,122
Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
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Rikarus posted:
Bonk, if you have a problemwith EVERY SINGLE ONE of them, YOU are the problem common to dating!
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Date Posted:
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learn how to talk to a real person and then talk to womenz. put your dating slow motion train wreck on hold for a bit and get some platonic friends.
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vn_nnanji
Title: Outpost Music Expert
Posts: 1,964
Registered: 2001-6-30 17:22:56
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1/1/00 12:00am
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Heladric's girl posted:
Heladric posted:
Bonk, I'm gonna make this simple. On a date, unless she asks a question about you directly, keep the conversation going on her life. Girls love talking about themselves. You'll know very quickly whether or not this girl is right for you if you just keep letting her talk about her.
I think I'm an awesome guy and that everyone loves being around me. But when this girl
and she agreed to go on a date with me, I stopped caring about me and kept the focus on her. We've been together for close to 2 years now. I knew almost everything about her when we started dating and she knew very little about me. But she's getting all the info as we go along.
So true. And if anyone will let me out of this closet I can escape.
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Moe_Nox
Title: In Moe We Trust
Posts: 1,962
Registered: 2007-2-4 12:17:56
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'Despertly' is not a word that should be involved in dating. Women will sense that from you in a heartbeat and you will not get a callback.
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vn_nnanji
Title: Outpost Music Expert
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Registered: 2001-6-30 17:22:56
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Even if you spell it right?
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