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Despertly trying to find things in common on dates
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__Bonk__
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Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
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Despertly trying to find things in common on dates
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I notice that some of the women on these Match dates will exaggerate or even lie to in attempts to find things in common with me. Now this really wont work because its a lie and they really dont have that in common with me at all. I'd rather someone just be honest
I do think I talk too much on these dates and not listen enough and perhaps I should try hard to emphasize the things we have in common rather than looking for the things we dont have in common.
Hate to be superficial but the thing that stood out on my last match date was, "Smokers Face" She mentioned struggling with smoking and i could see it in her face.
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Abaddon_Ambrosius
Title: Retired Theurgist TL
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Registered: 2001-12-21 09:51:39
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Both of you whip out your dicks and compare sizes. That should get some conversation going...
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GrilledCheez
Title: The Lord's Balls
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Registered: 2006-3-22 11:06:32
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How about both of you think she's awesome and interesting?
You are far too critical of the women you are trying to get to know and far too critical of yourself. You should find the narrative you want to represent and represent it. You don't have to tell her you have no friends and haven't been laid in ten years until the second date.
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__Bonk__
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One of my customers who gives me crap every week asked me about my latest match date and when he found out the results said, "Well she probably doesnt want to date a psycho."
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IMHO
Title: Official Outpost Greeter
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Registered: 2001-11-1 03:55:02
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Why do you have to find things in common?
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the_great_intex
Title: This is what cool looks like
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Registered: 2002-6-27 08:18:27
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For sure, having a bunch of crap in common doesn't sound like a huge positive. That customer of yours sounds like a douchebag, you should tell him to f*ck himself
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Kordirn
Title: Pirate Prince
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Registered: 2004-4-19 01:15:26
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I am a bit surprised at the cool people I am meeting this time around online. Talking to about 5 different gamer chicks right now lol
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__Bonk__
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the_great_intex posted:
For sure, having a bunch of crap in common doesn't sound like a huge positive. That customer of yours sounds like a douchebag, you should tell him to f*ck himself
I wish I could. He looks exactly like the principle in Feeris Buellers Day off lol
He is a total ass he is trying to provoke me. I heard him talking to someone about his dad. He said his dad likes to try to piss people off. Well he is a chip off the old block
None of the women I go out with get scared of me or anything and my women customers seem to like me.
I like women. I'm confused by them though and even now I have trouble following the rules of the dating game. Why have rules at my age? Some of the women are quite old fashioned
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Kordirn
Title: Pirate Prince
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Stop being so judgemental bonk. People are flawed, and I think you are just seeking out flaws... You have plenty of baggage of your own. Why not just go out, have fun, and see how things turn out? Try not to think too much into little things or you will be forever alone.
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Ptilk
Title: Creepy old pirate
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Registered: 2002-2-13 14:52:58
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Ask questions then listen to them answer, then ask another question.
Nothing about you. You don't mean shit on a first date. It's all about her, and that's OK. The only things you need to have in common are you like her and you don't hate you.
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