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Itab  4 stars
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So I don't know how to handle this situation. I've had a crush on this girl for almost 10 years. We really connected when I was younger(went camping with my sister and her husband/friends. This girl was there and at night we stayed up and had this amazing conversation. Shes amazing.) but it didn't turn into anything because she's 4 years older than me.

We didn't stay in touch over the years, but I always wanted to try and date her if the occasion arouse and timing was right.

Well last night while out for new years I saw her at the bar. Talked to her for like 45 minutes. It was awesome. I grabbed her number and we talked for a while today via text.

The thing is, now, she's friends with my ex wife because they work together and she's one of my sisters really good friend. I heard through my sister that she's not really looking for a relationship, but we've had something between us for so long that I want to ask her out. Or should I just try and be friends with her?

 

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-Foxy-  5 stars
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"but we've had something between us for so long ..."

you have. how do you know she has?

 

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Itab  4 stars
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She asks about me when my sister and ex talk to her I heard. And that camping trip was brought up by her to my sister just a few months ago. But you're right, I hope, but don't know for sure.

 

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-Foxy-  5 stars
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ahh ok. well if they say so, then you are probably correct.

 

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Lynea  4 stars
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Ask her out.

 

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Itab  4 stars
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Hopefully, but the circumstances are so weird now. I'm the ex husband of her friend, and the little brother of her best friend.

 

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Itab  4 stars
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Lynea posted:

Ask her out.



That's the plan, but idk if I should try texting back and forth for a few days before. Usually I just ask girls out if I like them, but with this girl its different. I actually care if she says no.

 

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Lynea  4 stars
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Itab posted:

Hopefully, but the circumstances are so weird now. I'm the ex husband of her friend, and the little brother of her best friend.


They're only weird if people are immature about it. Life is too short to let someone you care about pass you by.

 

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FineYoungCannibals  4 stars
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Registered: 2003-7-14 19:17:12
give her $40 for a blowjob and see how it goes

 

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Itab  4 stars
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FineYoungCannibals posted:

give her $40 for a blowjob and see how it goes



Only have $17. Damn...

 

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