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Author Topic: What can you say to someone who just put their [pet] down? Besides rainbow bridge. [Locked]
The_Town_Perv  1 star
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Registered: 2002-2-17 20:31:39
Tell them you're a lv 85 night elf druid, and offer to revive their pet.
myxomatosis8  3 stars
Title: amateur zookeeper
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Registered: 2001-7-14 23:45:21
I don't know how anyone can find the rainbow bridge comforting, I think it's awful and just makes me cry even more. Whoever said rubbing salt on wounds, I feel the same way about that damned poem.

 

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JoAyanami  1 star
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Caoilin posted:

i hear rainbow bridge and i immediately think of the bifrost and wonder why we're suddenly discussing norse mythology.


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Galdwarf  2 stars
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Registered: 2002-2-27 21:53:46
The_Town_Perv posted:

Tell them you're a lv 85 night elf druid, and offer to revive their pet.






Ask them if they've seen Pet Cemetary.

 

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-Ducky-  3 stars
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The ER vet sent me a card with this on it:

Grieve not,
or speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you,
I loved you so..
T'was Heaven here with you.


-Isla Pashal Richardson


I still can't read it without tearing up.

After my dog died my sister sent me a card with a picture of a night sky with a constellation outlining a dog shape and inside it said "Heaven is a little brighter"

I think the best thing you can do is acknowledge their loss in a manner that is congruent with their feelings. If they thought of their pet as a family member, then treat their loss accordingly. I know that putting my cat and dog down this year was one of the worst memories of life I have over 29 years. Some may say it is dramatic but they were both a huge part of my life. More so than any other human being to date.

 

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Jezza_Belle  4 stars
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Caoilin posted:

i hear rainbow bridge and i immediately think of the bifrost and wonder why we're suddenly discussing norse mythology.



I was wondering how you'd consider putting a dog down that a dog died in battle myself.

 

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the_great_intex  4 stars
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Tell them you are there to talk to them if they need to talk to somebody but can't

Makes a huge difference on the recovery process I've noticed when I had someone to talk to and when I didn't

 

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regulator_cracka  4 stars
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-Ducky- posted:

The ER vet sent me a card with this on it:

Grieve not,
or speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you,
I loved you so..
T'was Heaven here with you.


-Isla Pashal Richardson


I still can't read it without tearing up.

After my dog died my sister sent me a card with a picture of a night sky with a constellation outlining a dog shape and inside it said "Heaven is a little brighter"

I think the best thing you can do is acknowledge their loss in a manner that is congruent with their feelings. If they thought of their pet as a family member, then treat their loss accordingly. I know that putting my cat and dog down this year was one of the worst memories of life I have over 29 years. Some may say it is dramatic but they were both a huge part of my life. More so than any other human being to date.



And there you have it ACF, a shining star among a myriad of dark.


This is why I ask.

 

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pkhere  4 stars
Title: Yes, they are real
Posts: 2,683
Registered: 2003-9-4 16:38:32
a nun friend sent me this image the day after Heidi passed

it helped me thru the day

I have this image hanging in my office by pics of Rudy.

There are cards you can purchase for your friend that has lost a dear pet.

 

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regulator_cracka  4 stars
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Registered: 2009-1-6 15:07:53
Another good one pk, Thank you!

 

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