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Immortal_Haze  2 stars
Posts: 498
Registered: 2002-1-31 17:54:09
If I'm being perfectly honest, HH, I don't have a problem with what you did. And I say that as someone who has also been cheated on.

With my situation, I was extremely pissed at her. Regarding the guy, I felt that he needed to come face to face with the reality of what he'd done (which is what I'm guessing you also realize can happen now lol). I honestly know it was a poor choice on my part to go looking for the guy and I really do think I'm lucky he wasn't where he worked that day because it would have been bad.

Everybody makes mistakes, and people here seem to think their personal s*** doesn't stink. That being said, understanding that there are times you'll have to pay for those mistakes is an important lesson as well. And trust me, you never know what another person is capable of.

 

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BritonGuy  4 stars
Title: Serious Business
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Registered: 2004-3-4 20:43:50
Jezza_Belle posted:

BritonGuy posted:

Btw for all those inexperienced guys out there, married women are great. They have some sexual and emotional tension to release, plus they're really safe when it comes to SDTs and protection, so seriously... hit it. Most never tell their husbands anyways and you pretty much just add to a happy marriage rather than ruining anything because of that. All those old people anniversaries are because an anonymous wingman stepped up when it was needed and never spoke a word.



The Spouse doesn't want to know about it. They just like reaping the benefits of a happy husband/wife and let them think it's because of them.



Exactly. The problems come when you try to make a thing of it. Until then it's just a mutual exchange of chemical reactions with positive effects all around.

 

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Anebriated  3 stars
Title: I should be reading a book
Posts: 650
Registered: 2003-1-27 21:26:11
until you are single and get a married hottie thrown at you and you say no, you can't really pretend to be all self-righteous about it.
Gibbon_raver  2 stars
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Registered: 2004-4-11 15:45:47
ArmandoFF posted:

This thread is useless without pics

 

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Hyperimiator  3 stars
Title: Maximus Probus
Posts: 840
Registered: 2001-7-20 18:55:36
Tipztoe posted:

Hardcore_Hibby posted:

I take full responsibility for my actions. It is a messed up situation that we both should of never allowed. I do understand the rage a husband would have over this, but I'm not the married one here, and just maybe he should take a look at the homefront and see if they can figure out why the wife was unhappy and looking in the first place. Instead of trying to punch me in the face, cause that right there could end extra badly... I was with your wife, then I kicked your ass.... would probably make the husband commit suicide.

I wasn't looking for atta boy or anything, just feel like a giant douche for going against my morals/ethics. I'm not that guy that does something like this. Its not a my fault or her fault thing, it's an our fault thing, we both made mistakes and now unfortunately we both have to pay the consequences for our actions.



If that guy decides to punch you in the face, you man up and take it and don't swing back.



Well maybe you learned something out of the whole thing. No piece of tail is worth that, I have had ex's who are married beg for it, but I said no, they hated me at first for it, but years later they were thankful I wasn't weak.

It is like golf in the end the only person you really cheated was yourself.

 

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the_great_intex  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-6-27 08:18:27
People willing to steal, cheat and hurt other people for their own personal gain should realize they rob themselves morally in a way that prevents them from ever reaching their maximum potential

 

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Dark_EternalFF  4 stars
Title: Official ACF Turd
Posts: 1,838
Registered: 2002-11-8 22:44:06
Hardcore_Hibby posted:

Dark_EternalFF posted:

Look, HH, this thread isn't going to go much further unless you answer two simple questions:

1. Was she hot?
2. Did you finish?
Bonus question: Where did you finish?



1) very.
2) no. I didn't



Sorry about your blue balls. But at least she was hot.


HH posted:

The rest of you, keep being perfect...



I ain't judging you, I've had women cheat on their men with me more than once. Of course, in one situation her boyfriend was already cheating on her anyway, and in another her boyfriend was a drug-abusing loser, so their relationships were basically already ruined. In another situation she was a lesbian and we just made out while really drunk so I don't really count that.

 

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Tipztoe  4 stars
Posts: 1,775
Registered: 2004-3-1 17:53:43
Hyperimiator posted:

It is like golf in the end the only person you really cheated was yourself.



I cheat on myself all the time.. Sometimes I think about reapist's hand.
Rockerchickie007  1 star
Title: Queen of the Attention Whores
Posts: 121
Registered: 2002-8-15 19:36:03
Dark_EternalFF posted:

Did you at least get to finish before you got kicked out?


PS - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoD0M61fZOU



I got as far as this post and I just had to say, DE, you have fantastic taste in songs/music


And tech is highly appropriate for this situation.

 

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Dark_EternalFF  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-11-8 22:44:06
Was the first song that popped into my head when I read this thread

 

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