Urk_VN posted:
I'm usually willing to be patient with n00b players so long as they're not making huge mistakes, and then not correcting them. For instance, one group I was with in Stratholme with my lowbie druid trying out boomkin, and there was a pally tanking. I noticed she didn't seem to be able to hold aggro since mobs often attacked me or other peeps in our group. I looked at her buffs and saw that she didn't have Righteous Fury up.
I asked her repeatedly why she didn't have it up and to please put it on. After about the 7th time, she flat out said no, and other peeps in the group said "WTF", and after a "..." I responded "you know, I'm feral spec too, I could tank the dungeon". I immediately got a kick vote for the paladin, and they promptly removed her, and replaced her with a DPS while I switched over to feral gear/spec. The rest of the dungeon run went fine.
Since I understand that people make mistakes, I'm usually pretty forgiving if they fix the problem. But due to RDF and the way it works, I probably will never see those people again, and won't be afraid to leave the group if need be. So that's why you sometimes see people sticking it out, while others just /ragequit at the first death.
/smackhead
I have been in PuGs where the tank was new to the instance and didn't know the specifics of the encounters. The tank was willing to take input and the rest of the folks were willing to take it a little slow, and those were enjoyable and relatively smooth instance runs.
A PuG where someone doesn't know the basics of their class? As a tank? They usually get booted fairly quickly without anyone saying a word.
(There's a difference between "oops, I forgot my RF" and point blank refusing to put it on.)
In a case where multiple DPS is messing up? And not willing to listen / follow a competent tank? You get to make a personal decision about what you're willing to put with, how much patience you have and whether or not you're a charity.
And you get to do that guilt-free. It's a PuG.
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