Oh snap.

I have no idea what's going on, I just appreciate epic burnage.

Since I know Paloma hasn't spoken to you in months (she has had you squelched), why are you bringing this all up again? You seriously need a life. You consistently blow things out of proportion, which I know from personal experience with you. Get over it...play the game or don't play the game...I could care less. I personally choose to squelch you and your children myself in game, which is my prerogative. You, because I can't handle your long dissertations about about how everyone is against you and your children because, one chooses to grief kills and quests and the other one rambles on and on in general about nothing.

 

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Clav, please listen to what people have already said here, they are giving you some good advice. Just let this drop, I remember your post from a while back (which was very similar to this), and the exact same advice was given then. This is now almost becoming an obsession considering that you started this thread out of the blue, especially as Pal seems to be doing her best to avoid these situations (i.e. squelching you, if that's true).


I also suggest to you some light reading: http://vnboardsadmin.ign.com/rules/vnforumrules3.htm#Flaming,_Harassment,_Bashing,_Baiting,_Threats_and_Trolling


Particularly this: "threatening people or just directly provoking or baiting people just for the purpose of getting a negative reaction is not allowed on our forums...We expect posters here to respect each other, even if they disagree and dislike each other, so please keep personal disputes off our forums."


As far as I can see, Pal has always tried to prevent these personal disputes from becoming public, which is more than can be said for you. Understand that most people (that's right, not just Pal, which can already been seen by a fair number of people in this thread) have a problem with the way you deal with things and react to things. Nothing to do with your children.


You're meant to play this game for enjoyment. Behaving like this only ruins the game for you and your children, not to mention the countless other players who are forced to listen to it, and it does you no favours. Let it drop, move on, and enjoy playing the game with your kids.

 

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What did I miss?

 

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almost makes me want to resub .... just let them PvP it out ...... winner gets the gear

 

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I'm not touching this one with a ten foot clown pole.

 

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What happen to ignore people and squelch?

(no ones side)


I like cake.

 

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And you could banstick them?

Yeah, I know....let it go.

I had a friend...a good friend. Someone who I confided things to that few knew.

We came to a point that we disagreed on some issues. Chris? I 100% understood. Our issues went beyond that, however.

I tried to talk to my friend. As I am well aware of the inherent pitfalls in emails/pms I asked my friend to call so we could better communicate. We had discussed issues on the phone before in the past so I didn't see this as being an issue.

The reply I got was short and sweet, and basically it was, "My way or the Highway".

And yes, I posted a very respectful reply when I left. For I had nothing but love for my fellow friend/monarch and guild mates. I understood that in certain aspects my membership was a trial up on them. I also felt that it was time for me to move on in the best interest of everyone concerned.

Yes, Pal has squelched me. I wish she had told me why before doing so. She'd have had to threaten the life of my wife or my kids for me to squelch her.

I have been blundering around trying to figure out what I did that pissed people off so much. No one has been able to come right out and said, YOU DID THIS!!

I have been through a State Police administered lie detector test. One of the questions was, Have you ever told a significant lie to a friend.

My answer, No.

I passed the test with flying colors.

I am hurt, and I am angry. And I 100% apologize for my post. It was a knee jerk reaction to a conversation with someone I had hoped to intervene and perhaps set things right.

I am what I am...flawed.

And I am stressed.

I have Chris 24/7. And as loving as he can be, he can be angry and spiteful.

Actually, it's less of the former and more of the latter.

But, I love him...with all my heart. I'd lay down in front of a bus for him.

I wish everyone here got to spend 10 minutes with him rl.

I wish you got to spend 10 minutes with all my kids, as they are tremendous!

Judge me by what you see, if you want...but, get to know me and judge me by who I am.

Craig

 

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What you did is this: see the above two posts. Prime examples.


You aren't getting everyone in the world to agree with you. So you attack, then retract. Going from angry, and disregarded, to poor innocent victim. From miracle working daddy, to stressed out father of difficult children. From Im great!! to pity me.


You may be a good friend to someone, but not to her. To her you are toxic, and she can't deal with your crap anymore. This is a personal issue and you are supposed to be an adult. Stop looking for an audience to clap when you feel you made your point. She doesn't want to play with you anymore. Take you ball and go home, or go find someone else to play with, but leave her alone. Stop posting, stop sending tells, stop harrassing everyone you think may be an avenue to get to her.


And just an FYI, and my opinion only....you aren't the only person with stress in their life. Everyone playing has something going on, and it really pisses me off to see you whine about how stressful it is that you have to deal with your kids problems. There are some that play this game that don't have that luxury. Death, deployment, and other issues make that an impossiblity.