So I am giving up hope on saving this relationship. She will not talk to me, she returned my Christmas gifts, only through my friends. She told them she didn't want to see me and her mom is thinking of sending her to New Mexico to stay with her sister. So I'm done with it. For someone who said they loved me this is a crappy way to treat me. Not even respect enough for me to tell me why she did what she did.

 

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i support your decision. f that noise.

 

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This. It's one thing for her to break it off because of the circumstances, but to not give you the decency of an explanation or allow you an opportunity to ask what's going on when she supposedly cares/cared about you is another thing entirely. Even if you got back together it would be hard to not have some doubt that such an abrupt move could ever happen again.

You can always take the high road and let her know that you don't understand why the sudden reversal but if she ever decides to explain things to you you'd be willing to listen, and that you just wanted to talk to her to make sure she was OK and try and figure out what she was going through. But then don't get your hopes up or ever expect that - just be happy that it should make her feel worse about the crappy way she treated you here.

 

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Yeah, thanks Orr. I sent her a message saying as much, and I am taking the advice of a good friend. If she really loves me then she will come back, if she needed space and all that and she comes to explain it I will prolly forgive her. If we were to get back together though I have some rules I have developed that will need to be followed for the most part. If she doesn't come around then I will move on and find someone else I suppose.

I have been getting a lot of comfort in reading Heinlein's work lately, it helps a ton surprisingly.

 

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