"First off, no. I haven't liked gheris for quite a while"
Ah, well, kudos to you! So Gheris hopped on an incited a bunch of "mindless albs" into laying Hibernia to waste for their attempt on their relics? How unreasonable does this really sound to you? In medieval times, if the Saxons had just attempted some kind of sacking of a Norse keep, do you think the Norsemen would have sat back, laughed, and said, "Gee, nice try, guys! Better luck next time!"
Granted, this is a game, but imo, Gheris played it right. For as many times as people sit back in-game and defend their actions by saying, "Well, hey! This is war, right?" I surely here this incident looked back upon as horribly appalling, like Gheris went into Tir na Nog and slaughtered baby Lurikeen in their sleep or something.

It's not like I haven't had to dig into my own pocket to try and help repair our own relic doors everytime TNO came by and started knocking on Excal.

It's part of the game. Grow up and live with it or go play The Smurfs Online if you're so worried about the salvation of your enemy. I'm sure Gargamel would love you on his side.
"Gheris and I play for different reasons. His reason is to 'win'"
You obviously don't know Gheris at all, do you? The last thing he always says before logging is for people to HAVE FUN. That's what it's all about. If sacking every hib keep and beating down their relicless doors isn't fun for you, like I said, there's plenty of other games for you, like, The Sims Online or Chip N' Dales MMORPG, for example.
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our opponent cannot be competetive when they are at a 2:1 disadvantage against you."
I think 3vi said this best. You might as well throw fish in a barrel and pass the gun back and forth between the mids/hibs. I'm often appalled by how pathetic my fellow realm-mates are in RvR. It's also why you'll rarely see me in a group and never with the zerg. I figure that, at least when I'm running solo, I know who to blame when I get killed, and I don't feel so bad getting rolled by 8v8 gank groups when I'm solo as opposed to when I'm with 3fg of albs who shouldn't have a problem, but always seem to get wiped by said group.
Anyway, I've about said my peace here. I'll be seeing you out in emain, leeching RP's from your gank group, more than likely.