"Ijust found it funney that 3fg of such high RR hibs were running at 3:00pm in the afternoon when all that was out was a fg tk and the rest were RR2-3 alb pugs"
That's why my group left and went to Midgard. Emain had too many hibs and too few albs and mids. We had a lot of fun in Midgard. I love mids, because they always come out to defend. All you have to do is hit a keep to let them know you are there, and it's instant action. Later in the evening, 50+ hibs suddenly showed up in Odin's for some reason, so we left and went to emain. Had a blast there, because we were pretty much the only hib group in emain and got to fight 2g to 4g alb mini zergs. We even had a fun fight with an Endurance group (not sure if it was all Endurance, but I saw Kaelia and Evilovenbaked there). We had a much different group by then, and it just worked together much better.
"I am sure from this u would get the same impression as you never saw us for 1/2 hour."
No, I wouldn't. We didn't see you for over 1/2 hour between our first and second fight, but not for a second did it ever enter my mind that you were waiting for your ra's to be up. There are a ton of reasons why a group may be waiting. The other day we had to wait at dl forever because Phel kept going ld every time he tried to log in. Today Ign and Besegra were complaining because Khari went afk for over 20 minutes to fill out forms for college classes. Hell, if you factor in the time it takes us to release, port to dl (most people bind in toa or si), buff up (which always takes 10x as long as it should >.<
, run back out to emain, and then find your group again, it's almost guaranteed to take more than 30 minutes. That's assuming we don't run into some other group(s) first.
I guess fundamentally, I always look at a situation from the other group's side, and can think of hundreds of reasons why something may happen, instead of just assuming the most negative possibility. Groups run into each other - doesn't mean they are zerging. Groups have to wait for afk/ld/new group members - doesn't mean they are waiting for ra's to be up. Groups attack along high traffic routes - doesn't mean they are using radar. And so on.
