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HeartView  4 stars
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Chogram posted:

That's why I said that it depends on what type of mental cheating you are talking about.

It also matters if the pictures are of people that you know



I can agree with that last statement, especially if it is someone that you've had a relationship with in the past.

 

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murron2  3 stars
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One...the man I am married to now No one else compares in my eyes.


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BritonGuy  4 stars
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Jezza_Belle posted:

its unrealistic to think that one person can be everything you want in your life. I'm sure it happens once in a while, but not very often.

I could be happy with one man, if I was allowed to have a woman on the side.



Would you care if that man and that woman went off alone on the side also?

 

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purplehugmonkey  2 stars
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One is my preference, but failing that multiple with one at a time.

It's more important to be happy and enjoying life than staying on a sinking ship if we started hating each other or something, but I wouldn't switch just for variety.

 

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Jezza_Belle  4 stars
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murron2 posted:

One...the man I am married to now No one else compares in my eyes.


Truly...


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my only qualm with this is that you have been married before, and all of your past experiences have made you the person you are today, and the same with him. Had you not been with other people, you may not even be compatible today.

 

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Caoilin  4 stars
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it would completely depend on the relationship i was in at the time and what my partner wanted. i doubt i'd mind if my partner wanted to sleep around so long as she never brought back an std or a baby. oh and never blew me off for sex with someone else. that would just be rude.

right now i'm quite happy with my one because she's also my bff.

 

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Jezza_Belle  4 stars
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BritonGuy posted:

Jezza_Belle posted:

its unrealistic to think that one person can be everything you want in your life. I'm sure it happens once in a while, but not very often.

I could be happy with one man, if I was allowed to have a woman on the side.



Would you care if that man and that woman went off alone on the side also?



It would depend on if I was comfortable with that at the time, generally speaking I would be ok with it as long as they were honest about it and asked me if I minded before anything happened with them individually.

 

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murron2  3 stars
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Jezza_Belle posted:

murron2 posted:

One...the man I am married to now No one else compares in my eyes.


Truly...


~Murron~



my only qualm with this is that you have been married before, and all of your past experiences have made you the person you are today, and the same with him. Had you not been with other people, you may not even be compatible today.



I do owe my former husband a debt of gratitude. If he had not fooled around and fell in 'love', I would not know what truest love is today.

Truly!


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purplehugmonkey  2 stars
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Registered: 2005-5-16 18:42:03
It does seem like two different questions.

Would you prefer to date and stay with only one person your entire life?

Once in a serious relationship, would you prefer that it be an open relationship with more than one partner optional or a completely monogamous one?

 

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-Kruugar-  1 star
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Jezza_Belle posted:

its unrealistic to think that one person can be everything you want in your life. I'm sure it happens once in a while, but not very often.

I could be happy with one man, if I was allowed to have a woman on the side.



I've told my wife she's allowed to have additional female relationships.

All I'd ask is that I be able to watch or that they film it for me. I find it hot.

She isn't that type though.

 

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