sound like you can't read, and just want to be a jerk

 

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it sounds like you're someone who doesn't want to help his family.

I already moved my Mother into my house, any other questions, maybe I should let her off herself, huh is that what you want to hear?

I am concerned which is why I am 5000 miles from home, looking into it.

 

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so from 5k away, you feel you can make an informed decision to have her committed because her husband wants a divorce.

who doesn't feel like crap in that situation

much easier to commit her then help her


One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
other times there were one set of footprints.

This bothered me because I noticed
that during the low periods of my life,
when I was suffering from
anguish, sorrow or defeat,
I could see only one set of footprints.

So I said to the Lord,
"ou promised me Lord,
that if I followed you,
you would walk with me always.
But I have noticed that during
the most trying periods of my life
there have only been one
set of footprints in the sand.
Why, when I needed you most,
you have not been there for me?"

The Lord replied,
"The times when you have
seen only one set of footprints,
is when I carried you."

I just left their house. She has stated het intent. They have children.

It is pretty ugly over there, I am not going into details with you, for you obviously have your own problems as evidenced by your lack of reading comprehension.

 

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5150 her

 

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If she's stated an intention to take her own life you can probably call the police and request to file a report for records purposes in order to begin the involuntary committment process, if that is what you want to do.

I have participated in the process several times, so I will say be prepared for her to hate you and possibly hold a grudge for years(assuming she hasn't been hospitalized before and in the system, then it might be less of a big betrayal to her). It may not even start until she has stabilized and wants out, but has trouble because she'll have to wait on a psychiatrist opinion(complete with liability) to let her leave. It's still the right thing to do if she is a danger to herself, preferably with the majority of the drama out of the children's earshot.

Sorry to hear it.

 

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That is what I am worried about, she told her 11 year old daughter that when she kills herself it will be her fault.

She is mommie dearest with her oldest, the 11 year old, and now her daughter has a whole host of mental problems herself, though she is a very bright kid, and I think young enough to recover from them.

I have already told her husband, my brother in law, that I would support whatever he decides, the kids can be salvaged my sister I am afraid is a lost soul. She is just like my father, her unresolved issues have morphed to her now being a huge ogre to her kids.

I am considering all this over the sake of the kids, but man it is hard, I only have one sister and we were very tight as kids.

I am going to send my Mom back here to see her for herself, I think my Mom (a nutcase in her own right) needs to be in on this too.

I can't wait to get back on that plane to Hawaii in 10 hours or so.

I can't stand the insanity anymore.

 

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wow

just wow

 

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death is better than what happens to you when you're put on a psychiatric hold. esp if they, for no reason most of the time, feel that you need to be strapped down to the bed.

 

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