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Author Topic: My Biological Mother has Leukemia I havent talked to her in about 20 years.. send text ? no? [Locked]
purplehugmonkey  2 stars
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I definitely would either do nothing or call, not text.

Up to you whether you feel it is necessary/called for.

 

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Varece  4 stars
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I loved my mom to the end so good luck with that.

Mom

 

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Sarena_WE  2 stars
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The only advice I have is to consider if you will have regrets afterward. There is no changing the past. If you have ANY feelings at all towards her I would go or at least call her.

Did your brother keep in contact with her?

 

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murron2  3 stars
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Registered: 2002-1-6 08:40:46
Brandun, I think you should do whatever YOU feel is appropriate. If you hold no malice toward her and can wish her...all THE BEST...then let her know. Truly...


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Caledric  4 stars
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Registered: 2001-12-22 07:59:39
Caoilin posted:

why bother talking to her now? she obviously doesn't gaf about you.



not often I agree with Caoilin. Screw her, I wouldn't even give her the pleasure of a text.

 

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Ferrydust  3 stars
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Registered: 2002-9-4 20:32:54
Leukemia isn't always a death sentence. Call her, wish her well... move on and you can stop worrying about it.

 

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Brandun  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-1-23 10:11:50
Varece posted:

I loved my mom to the end so good luck with that.

Mom



I have a Mom


She is in Florida atm

She enjoys the warmth and my dad enjoys the golf leagues

 

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Brandun  4 stars
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Sarena_WE posted:

The only advice I have is to consider if you will have regrets afterward. There is no changing the past. If you have ANY feelings at all towards her I would go or at least call her.

Did your brother keep in contact with her?



regrets seem to be what is hanging over my head


and yes.. While I had mom and dad.. my Brother was much closer to her than I ever was...

kind of different stories

 

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Brandun  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-1-23 10:11:50
though I say that, and she completely messed with his head

over and over in fact

 

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Dark_EternalFF  4 stars
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Text - Ha ha

 

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