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_sooz_  4 stars
Posts: 1,256
Registered: 2004-12-4 11:40:44
Allmightybob_MLF posted:

_sooz_ posted:

_Alexandra_ posted:

You are a douche and so is she.




You were married when you hooked up with wolfz.



I was legally separated when Wolfz and i got together. My ex and i no longer lived together, divorce papers were being drawn up and there was no deception. I wasnt trying to have a relationship with Wolfz on the sly whilst still pretending everything was cool with my ex. So technically yes, i was still married, but there is a world of difference between the two scenarios.

 

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Allmightybob_MLF  2 stars
Title: Occult Amuck
Posts: 334
Registered: 2004-3-22 23:15:57
_sooz_ posted:

I was legally separated when Wolfz and i got together. My ex and i no longer lived together, divorce papers were being drawn up and there was no deception. I wasnt trying to have a relationship with Wolfz on the sly whilst still pretending everything was cool with my ex. So technically yes, i was still married, but there is a world of difference between the two scenarios.



I'm not blaming Wolfz, just like I don't blame Hibby if they were (assumably) not in relationships of their own. I could never trust a woman's integrity if she made a pass at me while she was still married.
Jezza_Belle  4 stars
Title: =^.^=
Posts: 2,771
Registered: 2001-2-24 02:29:30
Fozzie_Bear posted:

Jezza_Belle posted:

BritonGuy posted:

Btw for all those inexperienced guys out there, married women are great. They have some sexual and emotional tension to release, plus they're really safe when it comes to SDTs and protection, so seriously... hit it. Most never tell their husbands anyways and you pretty much just add to a happy marriage rather than ruining anything because of that. All those old people anniversaries are because an anonymous wingman stepped up when it was needed and never spoke a word.



The Spouse doesn't want to know about it. They just like reaping the benefits of a happy husband/wife and let them think it's because of them.



yeah... that your expert opinion from your years as a husband?



Did you even read what I said?

 

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_sooz_  4 stars
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Registered: 2004-12-4 11:40:44
Allmightybob_MLF posted:

_sooz_ posted:

I was legally separated when Wolfz and i got together. My ex and i no longer lived together, divorce papers were being drawn up and there was no deception. I wasnt trying to have a relationship with Wolfz on the sly whilst still pretending everything was cool with my ex. So technically yes, i was still married, but there is a world of difference between the two scenarios.



I'm not blaming Wolfz, just like I don't blame Hibby if they were (assumably) not in relationships of their own. I could never trust a woman's integrity if she made a pass at me while she was still married.



I didnt think you were blaming Wolfz, i assumed (quite rightly, i think) that you were blaming me. The truth of the situation was that we were attracted to eachother, but NEITHER of us wanted to have an affair. As much as i hated my ex, i didnt want to compromise my own integrity by doing that, so we didnt. We waited until it was very obviously over between me and my ex (and, most importantly, my ex KNEW it was over, and we had begun the process of getting divorced) before we started anything. You can blame me all you want, but my conscience is clear.

 

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Fallen_daemon  3 stars
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Registered: 2001-7-28 16:34:29
deadcactus posted:

I wouldn't do it, but I never understood all the hate for the outsider. It's not other people's job to babysit your s--ty marriage/relationship...



can't blame the guy for a free meal, the whore on the other hand....

 

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Fozzie_Bear  4 stars
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Registered: 2001-12-20 01:43:43
The Spouse doesn't want to know about it. They just like reaping the benefits of a happy husband/wife and let them think it's because of them.

yeah I read what you said. It's a bullsh*t excuse for somebody too cowardly to end a bad relationship.

 

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Gaevren  4 stars
Title: Wat do?
Posts: 1,181
Registered: 2004-9-15 09:29:36
deadcactus posted:

I wouldn't do it, but I never understood all the hate for the outsider. It's not other people's job to babysit your s--ty marriage/relationship...



I don't understand this attitude. Sure their marriage isn't any of your business to fix if it's crappy. But that doesn't mean you should deliberately make it worse. Plus if one person is so willing to have an affair, who knows where else s/he has been. Ew. I wouldn't trust that for the world.

If you don't know the other person is married that's one thing. But if you know, and just don't care- makes you almost as worthless as the cheater in my opinion, because you're willfully assisting the other person in breaking trust in one of the most absolute, complete ways possible.

I couldn't do it.

 

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Jezza_Belle  4 stars
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Registered: 2001-2-24 02:29:30
Fozzie_Bear posted:

The Spouse doesn't want to know about it. They just like reaping the benefits of a happy husband/wife and let them think it's because of them.

yeah I read what you said. It's a bullsh*t excuse for somebody too cowardly to end a bad relationship.



not all relationships are bad just because they lack sex.

 

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myxomatosis8  3 stars
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Posts: 800
Registered: 2001-7-14 23:45:21
How can you "disrespect" someone you've never met and don't know?

 

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AliHajiSheik  1 star
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Registered: 2003-1-5 08:42:33
Tell him she wanted a threesome and you were surprised he wasn't there.

 

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