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DoomheraldTD  1 star
Posts: 68
Registered: 2001-5-19 23:17:13
because i dont understand your crazy lady speak


"emotionally unavailable"


"fear of intimacy"


Need explanations plz ty - translate to man speak plz

 

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pkhere  4 stars
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Registered: 2003-9-4 16:38:32
have never had to use terms like that


what the heck kina gals you hang out with???

 

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Mrs_Adventure  1 star
Posts: 215
Registered: 2001-3-14 14:46:05
DoomheraldTD posted:

"emotionally unavailable"



aka I just broke up from a bad relationship and I'm not looking for a new one yet.


DoomheraldTD posted:

"fear of intimacy"



Need more info for this statement... as in she has a fear of intimacy? or as in I have a problem with guys who have a fear or are not into it for the intimacy?
DoomheraldTD  1 star
Posts: 68
Registered: 2001-5-19 23:17:13
Here i break it down for you:


Bumped into an ex who i rarely if ever see - she was like omg how are you etc etc then she said you know the reason we didnt work out was you were emotionally unavailable and had a real fear of intimacy...


I didnt want the conversation to go on any longer and i know what the literal definition of those terms are, but i am having a hard time applying them to me.. but i also have a large ego. kk


edit and we used to get down all the time u feel me

 

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Mrs_Adventure  1 star
Posts: 215
Registered: 2001-3-14 14:46:05
If it is from a woman sending it to you then it would mean she never felt you were in it for her. She felt that you had no plans of making it a serious relationship, though it was a relationship it was more of what is known as a booty call relationship. You might of made love, but were never in love with said woman.


Though would be intriguing to see if what I think she means is what she meant... so ladies of the vault I order you to reply!
DoomheraldTD  1 star
Posts: 68
Registered: 2001-5-19 23:17:13
she was probably on her period

 

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-Marie-  1 star
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Registered: 2007-9-6 16:43:02
She had a better offer and was letting you down ummmm gently.

 

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DoomheraldTD  1 star
Posts: 68
Registered: 2001-5-19 23:17:13
If she did i am happy for her, my ex high school sweetheart is married to a pro golfer - i try to stay cool but not in contact with my Ex's orlando is small and i have a bunch of them running around. Never a good time to have drama with some girl when you are out with another girl.

 

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