Let me break this down. A child does not work when he plays. His attention is still complete and undivided. This is effortless work. If you can apply this natural joy and effortless concentration to other areas of your life, then you will be free from the prison of your fear. You experience serenity in the face of any adversity (i.e Boss). Who among is afraid of any boss? It can be this way in real life. but then again gaming is real life. We only need to integrate what we know to be true about gaming to our lives.
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"What is here is there. What is not here is nowhere." Vishvasara Tantra
"Ever tried, Ever Failed. No matter. Try Again.
Fail Again. Fail Better. Samuel Beckett