Loving your enemies is a fundamental teaching of Buddhism and spiritual teaching in general. Jesus understood that each individual is on their own spiritual journey and to take things personally that any individual has done to you is pointless. Our spiritual journey we all endure is filled with hurdles, failures, pain, sorrow, successes and bliss. In order for our spirits to grow in maturity and wisdom we MUST go through these painful lessons as well as experience bliss. Every hurdle is a rung on the ladder toward an enlightened state of being. NO one said it was easy but I find that controlling the negative voice in your mind and controlling the negative and toxic influences in your life helps push you in the right directions.
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A thousand sheep are louder than one man. As long as the Survivor-watching sheep outnumber the thinkers, nothing will change. - BD